Fear and Guilt

 

 

 

There are two things that which we all fall prey to at some point in our lives that holds us back, at some points making us paralyzed within our current situations- Fear and Guilt.

 

Both of which are absurd at their foundation as neither is within the existence of what is real.  Fear is an emotion one’s brain conjures up based on a potential future that is dependent upon an exponential amount of variables that only within us is it even fathomable.  We take that made up future possibility and draw conclusions based not on fact, proof, solid research or anything else of substance, but instead we base our idea on fictitious emotions.  We allow this fear to change or alter what our heart and our heads tell us we should do and definitely allow it to override our gut instincts.  This fear is the greatest obstacle between us and the power we all possess and our ability to create the future we desire.

 

Guilt is just as absurd.  Its foundation also comes not within reality but from an emotion again and this time it is just as distorted.  We are remembering something from our past, not as it was, but as we perceived it.  We ruminate that remembrance until we have manipulated the scenario to be exactly as we choose for it to be, either better or worse than it really was.  Our memories are not exact or precise; they are fallible and run with emotions.  These emotions distort images, audio, and feelings to fit the current model of our needs.  We then make decisions based upon this false past and typically give ourselves a false sense of negativity over things we do not accurately replay, can do nothing about, and have absolutely no control over the outcome or the responses we have received.  Our responsibility for the past ends in the past and we can have no authority over or responsibility for anything except our own actions and reactions- past, present or future.

 

The ability for a human to rid themselves of their fear and guilt directly correlates to their ability to move boldly forward in creating the future they desire.  The universe favors the bold.  Vanquish fear and guilt through releasing the counter-intentions buried deep within your subconscious.  These counter-intentions are holding you back from achieving your goals completely and creating what you desire.  Release the guilt, release the fear, allow yourself to live in the NOW and find your joy and happiness within.  Let go of your baggage and free yourself from the confines of your misrepresented past and unknowable future.  Live your best life NOW!!!

 

 

 

Quotes From Les Brown These may be helpful in Life

A lot of people do not muster the courage to live their dreams because they are afraid to die.
Les Brown

Accept responsibility for your life. Know that it is you who will get you where you want to go, no one else.
Les Brown

All of us need to grow continuously in our lives.
Les Brown

Anytime you suffer a setback or disappointment, put your head down and plow ahead.
Les Brown

Don’t let someone else’s opinion of you become your reality.
Les Brown

Forgive those who have hurt you.
Les Brown

Forgive yourself for your faults and your mistakes and move on.
Les Brown

Goals help you channel your energy into action.
Les Brown

Help others achieve their dreams and you will achieve yours.
Les Brown

Honor your commitments with integrity.
Les Brown

I advise you to say your dream is possible and then overcome all inconveniences, ignore all the hassles and take a running leap through the hoop, even if it is in flames.
Les Brown

If you are carrying strong feelings about something that happened in your past, they may hinder your ability to live in the present.
Les Brown

If you fall, fall on your back. If you can look up, you can get up.
Les Brown

If you put yourself in a position where you have to stretch outside your comfort zone, then you are forced to expand your consciousness.
Les Brown

If you set goals and go after them with all the determination you can muster, your gifts will take you places that will amaze you.
Les Brown

If you take responsibility for yourself you will develop a hunger to accomplish your dreams.
Les Brown

In day-to-day commerce, television is not so much interested in the business of communications as in the business of delivering audiences to advertisers. People are the merchandise, not the shows. The shows are merely the bait.
Les Brown

It takes someone with a vision of the possibilities to attain new levels of experience. Someone with the courage to live his dreams.
Les Brown

Just because Fate doesn’t deal you the right cards, it doesn’t mean you should give up. It just means you have to play the cards you get to their maximum potential.
Les Brown

Life has no limitations, except the ones you make.
Les Brown

Life takes on meaning when you become motivated, set goals and charge after them in an unstoppable manner.
Les Brown

Other people’s opinion of you does not have to become your reality.
Les Brown

Review your goals twice every day in order to be focused on achieving them.
Les Brown

Shoot for the moon and if you miss you will still be among the stars.
Les Brown

Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss, you’ll land among the stars.
Les Brown

Someone’s sitting in the shade today because someone planted a tree a long time ago.
Les Brown

The only limits to the possibilities in your life tomorrow are the buts you use today.
Les Brown

There are winners, there are losers and there are people who have not yet learned how to win.
Les Brown

Too many of us are not living our dreams because we are living our fears.
Les Brown

Unlike productions in the other arts, all television shows are born to destroy two other shows.
Les Brown

Wanting something is not enough. You must hunger for it. Your motivation must be absolutely compelling in order to overcome the obstacles that will invariably come your way.
Les Brown

We must look for ways to be an active force in our own lives. We must take charge of our own destinies, design a life of substance and truly begin to live our dreams.
Les Brown

When life knocks you down, try to land on your back. Because if you can look up, you can get up. Let your reason get you back up.
Les Brown

You cannot expect to achieve new goals or move beyond your present circumstances unless you change.
Les Brown

You must remain focused on your journey to greatness.
Les Brown

You need to make a commitment, and once you make it, then life will give you some answers.
Les Brown

You take on the responsibility for making your dream a reality.
Les Brown

Your ability to communicate is an important tool in your pursuit of your goals, whether it is with your family, your co-workers or your clients and customers.
Les Brown

Your goals are the road maps that guide you and show you what is possible for your life.
Les Brown

Your smile will give you a positive countenance that will make people feel comfortable around you.
Les Brown
Thank you Les Brown
Rick Crawford

The Missing Secret: It makes all the difference

 

I was fortunate enough to come across an amazing audiobook this past week called “The Missing Secret”  written by Dr. Joe Vitale.  Most are familiar with Vitale from his role in Rhonda Byrnes’ movie and book “The Secret”.  Vitale has been a leader in the marketing and personal development arenas for many years and this latest information details the 5 steps in putting The Secret to work for you all of the time, every time, in your life.  Much of this information is also in his book called “The Attractor Factor” BUT it has been expanded upon and detailed differently along with the fact that Vitale has included some new clearing techniques to help put the information into play for the reader/listener even faster.

 

Many times we read or listen to information and hopefully find value with it.  Sometimes we are even lucky enough to enjoy it so much we will quote some portion of it, talk about it with someone else and maybe, just maybe, actually DO something with it.  This books was so unbelievable, so phenomenal that we have listened to it twice, had hours upon hours of discussions about it with each other, talked with friends and family about the information, and have instituted A WHOLE BUNCH into our daily practices.  I stated in the title of this entry that this missing secret- Vitale’s book- makes all the difference.  It is just so true!  We have seen these actions yield results- immediately!

 

Vitale shows the reader 5 essential steps and expands on the best ways to implement these into your daily life.  Basically, these tools will help you become clear on what it is that you really want- determine what your true intention is.  Also to make sure that your intention is 180 degrees from what you DON’T want.  You are also led through getting rid of the deep seeded beliefs we have that counteract our ability to achieve our goals and utilize the law of attraction in the way we are initially wanting.  Vitale goes through techniques to clear out these thoughts, theories, beliefs, etc.  Once you have these limitations cleared Vitale walks you through “Neville-izing” your goals.  This simply has you adding as much detail, feeling, pictures, scents, anything possible to intensify the visualization and to imagine it as if you have already accomplished your goal.  Putting yourself into the position of complete achievement and setting your mind, your vibration, your entire being into alignment with getting you exactly what you want. 

 

Probably the most profound piece I got from this book was his last key- releasing the attachment and learning how to be happy “now”.  Vitale goes on to detail how realizing that you don’t really need what it is that you want, that you will be just fine without it, just the icing on the cake so to speak, will release the desperation and all negative energy being sent to it.  Happiness comes and goes and really has nothing to do with materialistic wants and desires.  Vitale made me realize that once we attain what we want, the happiness diminishes rather quickly and our brains begin to find something new to focus on as a means to the end of us being happy.  Once we are able to find our happiness within- to be happy with what we already have and release all of the other things.  To just be happy with what and who we are, then the world is in vibration with us and will bring all of the “extras” the “icing” to us- happiness brings more happiness!

 

Gratitude cannot be forgotten in this entire exercise.  We must see and feel all that we have, all that we have been blessed with and be truly grateful for it.  As we do this, we open ourselves to being able to receive even more.  The best way to be successful is to help others attain and achieve their success- to put ourselves out for others and help them- to delight in their happiness and be grateful for being able to be a part of this journey and assist them.

 

I am happy and have seen just how powerful this book is.  I encourage everyone to add this to their library and actually put into action within their lives.  May this year be the best one ever for you and may you be blessed with happiness, love, wealth and health.

 

Written by Susann Crawford

The First 3 Steps To Reach Your Goals

1-   Write out your personal vision statement.

This will sound very easy to some and insurmountable to others.  Some will even want to skip this and not see the monumental value or understand how best to accomplish this.  First, you must decide what it really is that you want out of life and what you want to accomplish while you are in this life.  Think broad statement, global aspect, how or in what way do you want to impact the world or society with your life.  This is your ultimate, end result that you are working towards.  In some cultures they believe your vision is the overarching theme to your existence. This is not to be confused with your goals however.  They come next and are a means for you to ultimately attain your vision.

 

2-   Make a detailed list of your goals- these may be small and very specific, or larger and broader.

These are the steps and accomplishments you will experience victory through on your journey to accomplishing your vision.  We like to think of these as markers along the road to let you know just how far you have come as well as how far you have left to go.  Goals need to have two components- they need to tell you (and everyone else) exactly how much and by when you are accomplishing, and then to be framed in a specific and positive way.  Vague goals produce vague results.  Include all possible details, these details give more validity to your goals in your brain and are more easily attained.

 

3-   Finally, you need to chunk down your goals into action steps. 

This is really the nitty-gritty to receiving what you truly want out of this life.  These are the day-to-day tasks you need to work on or accomplish in order to attain your goals.  Each action step takes you one step closer to reaching your goal and achieving your vision.

 

Some of you will say you don’t know what to write as your vision, goals, or action steps.  The vision is a detailed picture of what you would like to look back on your life and be able to say you had a hand in accomplishing or making better.  Once you know where you want to go in this life and what you want to receive from this life you can visually place yourself in that time and place and look back.  Imagine you are being interviewed by Katie Couric and she asks you “what was it that you did to make to where you are now”- make sure you have mentally placed yourself already having achieved and actively experiencing the completion of your vision.  Take a moment and look back over time and allow your mind to tell you what things did you accomplish in order to get to where you wanted to be?  How did accomplishing those items make you feel?  Then, get even more specific with yourself and look to see what daily things made it possible for you to achieve those goals.  Jack Canfield, in “The Success Principles”, tells us that our brain is capable of accomplishing absolutely anything that we want.  “The brain is a goal-seeking organism.”  We only have to allow it to do so.  Nothing is out of reach or impossible and we already have everything we need within ourselves to achieve each and every thing we desire.  Those things we do not already posses or know our brain will align for us to find or encounter, the people we need to assist us in our journey will be brought to us.  With constant and impassioned thought, we can attain and achieve all that we most desire.  The first step though, is to write down in vivid detail what we want and how we plan to get it.  www.wealthy-resources.com

 

Kreate the Life you want at KAM=P

KAM=P       

This is the simplest philosophy I have ever come up with. This a 
guaranteed formula to assist you in achieving ANY goal and 
explaining why you have or have not achieved things in the past.

K = Knowledge (personal development, Beyond Freedom Program, 
training calls, conferences)
A = Application (marketing, advertising, DMO, returning calls timely)
M = Motivation (being clear on why you are here and what you want to 
achieve)

P = Performance (the result or outcome, what you get in return)

If we are to utilize this as a mathematical formula we can see that 
if we have the ability to place effort in levels of 1-9 with 1 being 
low and 9 being all out the answers are clear.

K X A X M = P
1 X 1 X 1 = 1
9 X 1 X 1 = 9
3 X 3 X 3 = 27
5 X 5 X 5 = 125
9 X 9 X 9 = 729

You can obviously insert any number on the effort level into the 
different categories and see the outcome you can expect. The other 
thing to remember is this is assuming you are giving at least a 
level one of effort in each category. The laws of multiplication 
tell us that if you multiply ANYTHING by zero you will ALWAYS get an 
end result of ZERO!

You must be honest with yourself as well, is the level of effort I 
am expending really the level I think it is or am I just spinning my 
wheels? Parents have forever sent their children to camp to come
back more mature, more well-rounded individuals, and more inspired. 
Send yourself to KAMP and achieve what you truly desire!   http://wealthy-resources.com

Millionaire Secret Revealed

• The quickest way to a million dollars is by living through an attitude of gratitude. So often we think our individual role is insignificant or we can’t do much on our own. The thought that one person can make a difference is what we should be fostering in ourselves and others. Often we are appreciative of others, of things, of our circumstances, but we don’t outwardly show this appreciation. I am often reminded that a gift is not really a fits until it is given. Gratitude is the most powerful gift in the world, but keeping it to yourself and not expressing, not telling those you are grateful leaves an empty void. I have a practice that each and every day while I am in the shower, I think of as many thing as possible that I am genuinely and sincerely grateful for. I say thank you mentally to each person, each action, each item I have been blessed with. I also every week send out 3 email or cards to people expressing my heart felt gratitude for their role in my life. I have started having my students keep a gratitude journal where each week day they must write down 3 things in their lives they are grateful for. By centering my focus throughout the day on all that I have to be grateful for, it makes me better aware of just how fortunate I am. More so, I also see how much I have grown, accomplished, and achieved. It improves my frame of mind and helps keep me positive even in the darkest of times. When I experience a set back or just have a down or bad day, I immediately start saying my gratitudes again. Through this process, I have been able to reformat my thought process and achieve even more in my day to day life. I have seen a positive influence as well on the people I am around just from them feeding off my positive vibration. I also believe it shows me and others that as I achieve more, am blessed with more, or are given more, my gratitude will also increase. Everyone likes to feel appreciated. All of us enjoy the feeling of being valued by others. Gratitude will bring so many amazingly positive things in your life. If you are not experiencing great achievements in all parts of your life, perhaps you need to take a look at how grateful you have been and what you really need to center your thought on. Is it what you are lacking? or should it instead be what you have been fortunate enough to have already. Enjoy your Christmas holiday and relish in the gratitude of your lives. http://www.wealthy-resources.com